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Every child who has witnessed domestic violence and abuse has a story to tell. The following poems are a part of my story. Although the accounts were written as an adult, the images of violence are forever etched in my mind. You never forget, nor do you ever forget your feelings about the situation. Eventually you learn to move on in life, but the mayhem will be with you until the day you die.

 

 

AFRAID OF THE DARK

 

I dread the night, the end of day,

for I know the dreams will come again.

In the light I feel safe,

the night has become my enemy.

In the corners of my room

I see faces, many expressions of evil,

lurking there night after night.

The demons are my own, no one sees them but me.

I cry out in vain, shutting my eyes tightly

hoping they will go away.

But they are increasing, getting stronger.

My pillow offers no comfort

as I cover my head, I struggle for air

wondering if I might die.

The shadows surround my bed,

laughing, laughing, laughing;

because I am afraid of the dark.

Yes, I am afraid.

Who will comfort me?

Only the Light, the Light of day.

FALSE PRIDE

 

I was hungry, but I would not steal.

When others asked of my plight

I would say, “I’m alright.”

We weren’t allowed to tell anyone

what went on behind closed doors.

To the world we were fine,

except to those who wandered in.

I learned to carry an air of dignity,

yeah, I call it “False pride.”

A pride that has taught me to say, “No”,

when I really want to say, “Yes”.

A pride I carry today as I struggle

to ask for the things that I need.

Inside I would cry out for love,

and yet I’d let it pass me by.

I don’t want to appear too needy-

“It’s a sign of weakness.” Or so I’ve been taught.

Ha! What is so strong about a soul

only being half alive?

Yeah, that false pride,

it sure can make a fool out of you.

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OH, FREEDOM COME

 

Flying on the wings of truth,

my soul longs to be free.

Free from this sea of pain,

the hidden shame of humiliation,

oh, freedom come.

 

Take me away, far, far away,

where unkind minds cannot penetrate my being.

Where thoughtless deeds are never more,

oh, freedom come.

 

Lead me beside the shinning sea,

peaceful shores of bliss,

blue skies, the warmth of the sun.

Solace, peace enfold me,

oh freedoom, oh freedom, oh freedom come.

 

TO GRANDMA’S HOUSE WE GO

 

To Grandma’s house we go,

a cryin’ in the night,

for Mom and Jessie are havin’

a knock down, drag out fight.

 

We cross the streets of darkness,

fear would make us dare.

To leave a house of torment,

and run to one who cares.

 

To Grandma’s house we go,

a place where there is peace.

Where pain and tears subside,

away from the Ugly Beast.

 

To Grandma’s house we go,

oh, I wish that we could stay.

But Mom will come and get us,

“Please don’t!” We hope and pray.

 
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Scripture taken from the NEW AMERICAN STANDARD BIBLE®,© Copyright 1960, 1962, 1963, 1968, 1971, 1972, 1973, 1975, 1977, 1995 by The Lockman Foundation - Used by permission. (www.Lockman.org)
 
Also using scripture from the KJV where noted.
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